July 6, 2009

The one where you learn how it happened

This past month has been amazing and it would not have happened if it weren't for our pass along cards (thank you Jill!) and of course, my mom and Kristina. In short, our birth mother found us when she got two of our pass along cards from two different people in one day! (Pass along cards work, people! I can't stress this enough!) :p



Here is how it happened:

In April, Que and I went to dinner with my dear friend Kristina and her husband Adam and at the end of the evening I happened to give her some of our pass along cards. A few days later, Kristina said when she went to get her hair done, her stylist mentioned that her roommate was pregnant and was looking at different families, so Kristina gave her one of our pass along cards. (And then her roommate happened to come in the salon and Kristina met her!)

Very shortly after that, my mom told me she had just been to her hair salon and she noticed 3 children come into the salon to get their hair cut. Her stylist told her they were so close in age because they were all adopted. My mom then told her about us, and her stylist mentioned that another stylist at the salon had a roommate who was pregnant and was in the process of looking at families. So my mom gave her our card.

My mom and Kristina had been going to the same salon and didn't know it; and as I said before, our birth mom ended up getting our pass along card twice, from two different people in the same day!

Fast forward about 2 months.

On June 4th (the day before we left for Alaska) our adoption caseworker (Rachel) called me and said a birth mother wanted to meet with us. (This was the first time we had gotten a call like that! We were so excited!) Rachel said the birth mother had not yet made a decision but still wanted to meet. But because of our vacation and her work schedule, we didn't end up meeting for 3 more [agonizing!] weeks.

After returning from Alaska we found out that the birth mother who wanted to meet with us was the same girl that had months before, gotten our pass along cards from Kristina and my mom.

It turns out she had our cards in her wallet for months and she said whenever she opened it, there we were. :)

**Stay tuned for more details. Click here to read the previous post which talks about how she told us that she had chosen us to be the parents.**


(UPDATE: You can also click the blog tag "Our Miracle Boy" for all the posts that talk about him and his birth mom.)

28 comments:

Kristina P. said...

I was actually there when your mom's stylist gave the mom your pass along card too.

I was talking with the birth mom, and the stylist overheard the conversation and mentioned that a client had also given her one of those cards. And sure enough, it was your card!

It was honestly one of the few moments in my life that I knew that this was meant to happen, and I knew that her baby was meant for you. It just took a bit longer for it to come about!

And remember, I really think Kristina-is-awesome would be a great middle name.

Kristina P. said...

Oh, and if Rychelle reads this, you better bring it, you one-upper!

Spaces for Faces said...

I am soooooo happy for you guys! This is so stinkin' exciting!

Jessica said...

I'm so happy for you!!!! That is such great and exciting news. You must be on cloud nine. Please share all the details. :)

Sunny said...

I'm visiting your blog via Kristina's.

Congratulations on your wonderful news!!! :D

clan of the cave hair said...

such an exciting story. I mean, seriously, can it be denied that this was meant to be? No, I think not. So the question is, when is the baby due, and how prepared are you?!

Annette Lyon said...

YESSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The Boob Nazi said...

What an amazing coincidence!

crimsonandclover said...

I came to your blog via Kristina's. I'm so happy for you, and I'm so happy to read such a great story on an otherwise cruddy Monday. Many blessings and well-wishes for your family from Chicago.

~Megan

PetalsYoga said...

It was simply meant to be! What a beautiful story for your child to have throughout his life. Wishing you all a life-journey filled with joy, health, and love.

natalie said...

I have been stalking you for ages, but I have to come out and tell you how happy I am for you! My two youngest siblings are adopted, and I just remember how exciting it was to get the call that they were waiting for us to pick them up. I look forward to seeing your family grow.

Shelle-BlokThoughts said...

CONGRATULATIONS!!! That is So neat! Seriously. I have many that are close to me that have had to adopt... it is such an incredible experience and so rewarding when that special spirit is officially yours, even though they have been before all the papers are signed! :)

Hizzeather said...

Wow...what a cool story! I love Fate! :)

L.T. Elliot said...

Congratulations!!!! (Came over from Kristina's blog.)

Motherboard said...

The church is true! (because there is no such thing as coincidence!)

Congrats!!

Debbie said...

That is so so exciting. Amazing. Can't wait to hear more!

Lindsay said...

I know you don't know me, but I found you through the r house. I am so happy for you and que! I was bawling when I read how your birth mom announced to you. We are starting the process to adopt #2 and for sure need to get some pass along cards! Congratulations and can't wait to read more about your story!

Kerri said...

i just came over from Kristinas blog and want to say congratulations! This is such exciting news! Best wishes. You will love being a mom!

ladyfi said...

How exciting! I really hope she chooses you!

As the mother of two internationally adopted kids, I know just how agonizing the wait can be!

Lobbie said...

Brittany I'm so happy for you guys!! YEAH! This makes my morning!

elesa said...

Thank you for the Pass Along Card inspiration! I hope it is OK I am sending people to read your story. It is such a good one! And I'm so happy for you. Thanks for sharing!

ramsam said...

And I know both of you???? It all makes me feel like we are part of the most amazing plan ever....wait, we already know that!
it makes me APPRECIATE we are part of this amazing plan ever!

Do car seats fit in the back of the mustang????

Erica Hanks said...

Congratulations! That is so awesome!

Here visiting from "Kristina-Is-Awesome"! lol

Christina said...

Thank you for sharing that, Brittany. I am so happy for you and Que.

Wendy said...

OH MY GOSH, I have chills up and down! That is so cool!

Dave and Holly said...

What a neat story! I also didn't realize that you have a link to our blog on your adoption blog. That is sooooooo nice of you! I've noticed a couple of people have come to our blog via yours. Keep us posted on how things are going!

mandamike said...

I was wondering if I could link your pass along story on a blog post on my website. We just re-did our pass along cards and I would like to promote sharing them. Let me know if it's ok if I Link your story. - thanks!
amanda
adopt@mandamike.com

Midwest Mommy said...

Oh I have chills!